On This Night- A Prayer Commemorating The Assassination of MLK 1968

Creator God, Loving Father,

We are brought to this place to remember. On this night, 50 years ago your servant was shot down, assassinated. A modern day prophet who’s life was snuffed out to soon.

We come to this place on this night to remember not only a death still painful but to witness a legacy rooted and grounded in your love and a legacy still strong and growing.

Heavenly Father, you are good. You are love, joy, and peace. You are patience, kindness, and goodness. You are  faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. These are your characteristics and you are their definition. We know you are sovereign even in the midst of pain, suffering and injustice. You work all things for good.

So Father, on this night, we remember the life, work, and ministry of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Junior who sits as a member of the great cloud of witnesses who have gone before us. We remember your servant and visionary who worked to live out Jesus’ dream of unity, peace, and togetherness; of justice and righteousness.

On this night, we remember his model of peace and non-violence which is the way of the cross; sacrificial love which will give its life when called and lay down our lives for others.

On this night we remember a legacy that saw a heavenly vision, like Moses on the mountaintop, seeing the Promised Land, ready to take his people there from a place of bondage to ultimate freedom.

On this night, we know the fight for justice rages on in our communities, state, country, and world. We have made great progress through your guidance, but the work is not yet finished. Help us become the beloved community.

On this night, we pray for our enemies. We pray for those who still rise up and abuse their authority and in fear take lives without cause. Oh, Lord have mercy. Heal our brokenness.

On this night, we commit to your way of peace and non-violence for those who live by the sword will die by the sword. We pray for boldness and dignity as we turn the other cheek in Holy defiance of abuse.

On this night, we covenant together to work together, for there is no Jew nor Gentile, no black no white, no male no female, no young no old, we are all in Christ and nothing separates us from your love, O  Lord.

On this night, we further resolve to work and pray for an end to white supremacy and prejudice. To see your people, for you created all of us, to see us united through your love and our love of our neighbor above ourselves. If there is love, there can be no fear and with no fear no hate, and with no hate, a commitment to work together to solve our deepest problems.

And on this night, O Lord, we give thanks for legacies lived, for the shaping and making of our own legacies. To see an end to all injustice. From the words of the prophet Amos, to see justice roll down like waters and righteousness like an ever- flowing stream. To define our greatness by serving others. To break down all of the chords that divide us, to tear down the walls and build one another up in love.

Thank you, Father. Give us a vision for peace we saw in your servant, Dr. Martin Luther King who lived out your Holy vision. Grant us the courage to work tirelessly and together until that end. For on this night, we commit our way to You.- In Jesus name, Amen

Leadership and Love

Leadership and Love

Most people would not put those two words together. Many times, our concept of leadership shapes around larger than life personalities. Tough, focused, driven people bent on a task and willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it. Yes, we need people to help us get there, but it seems this can be equated to a vital resource like a solid web platform or a functioning office space. How many times do the people we serve with often feel more like a piece of furniture than a beloved member of a team or family?

On this day, this Maunday Thursday, we are reminded by another expression of leadership that is mission focused as well, and yet the way people are treated is countercultural to what we espouse in leadership. Jesus gave his disciples a new command, a new mandate, which was to love.

A leader who washes feet taking on the lowest form of a servant. A leader who sees potential betrayal and is not deflected by it. A leader who recognizes a denial and an abandonment forthcoming and yet remains focused and tender to those who stay close with him.

I ponder and reflect on how this comes to pass knowing how I feel when the task seems so great, the mission so large, and sometimes feeling overwhelmingly alone; when you have great people around you and not sure really what to do with them.

Jesus does some things, though that I believe help us see how he remains rooted and grounded as he leads:

Love First: His mission and tasks were under girded by a deep love. It was a love first with God, the Father. That love overflowed into the love he expressed with his disciples and would be most evident in his love for all of humanity even when we did not recognize or understand it.
It calls me to also love first. My first attentiveness is with God, my Father. I am a living being to him and he wants me to be with him first before I do anything. That attentiveness with him deepens my love for others and lets me see people as he sees people.

Serve Anyway: My serving is not contingent upon what others do or do not do for me. Why? Because my serving is still the expression for love of God and love of people even if they do not understand or agree with me. Jesus still washed the feet tenderly of the betrayer, the denier, and the rest who would run away and flee from being arrested. His service is not contingent on how people will respond. It flows from a deeper place of love and commitment to a greater purpose. This reveals an authenticity that can cut through the difficult situations as leaders.

Serving feels good for the most part. We get a certain sense of deep satisfaction when we help others. There is a scientific reason for this and I also believe God designed us this way. He created the brain chemicals that result in the pleasant feeling we get when we help others. Knowing our service was meaningful positions us for the next opportunities. It is when we do not feel appreciated, when we are misunderstood, or when the service is hidden and unnoticed that we wrestle with the notion to “serve anyway”. This discipline protects us from self-centeredness, narcissism, and again focuses us on a greater purpose of why we serve.

Pray Always: Praying always completes our circle because it comes back to the Father. I recognize this leadership model may not fit with a person who does not believe in God. Understandable. However, the strength Jesus drew to love first and serve always was based upon the relational connection he had with God, the Father. This was the source of understanding the mission and purpose for being on earth which was to become The sacrifice to atone for all the sins of humanity past, present, and future and pave the way for an eternal relationship and connection with God. Posturing in prayer was how Jesus maintained that strength to love first and serve anyway.

Prayer is difficult. It can seem overwhelming on the one hand and boring on the other. We can watch hours of mindless television, podcasts, YouTube, etc. but struggle to find 10-15 minutes to pray. Irony for sure. I treat prayer like eating. It is something I must do to sustain. Being the structured person that I am, the morning and the evening are framed by intentional prayer. But, the time itself may not feel structured. It is more like being prayerful or conversational with God versus scripted prayers, although that happens sometimes as well. It reflects conversations with God in my car as I see and notice certain things. It is a person coming to mind that I then ask God to touch, heal, or be present with in the way he know best. But, that is how I sense “pray always”. Paul said it best with pray without ceasing. For sure.

As you think about leading I would encourage you to focus on loving first. The people always come before the mission. Serve anyway for it will allow you to serve authentically and in a way that guards our self- interests. Finally, pray always. Our guidance is from the Lord and our mission is his. This helps us stay rested and grounded in the lifelong task we have for the day.

May God bless you on this Maunday Thursday as you reflect upon Jesus’ time in the Upper Room with his disciples as he washes their feet and eats the Passover meal with them and Judas’ impending betrayal. When he gives them and us a new mandate to love.

Grace and peace,
lisa